Monthly Archives: March 2025

The Boat of Life

Since returning home from America’s Great Loop three weeks ago, life has quickly returned to normal. The champagne is stored. Ed and I have caught up with friends and family; I feel more impatient; and have spent a great portion of time waiting for service people to repair the air-conditioner, the ice-maker, and plumbing in our house. None is yet in order. And really, that’s OK, as while on our trawler Finito something was always broken! The difference? We are on land and at home.

Even our cat, Okee, seems anxious.

A nervous Okee – once home March 8, 2025.

So what’s so magical and forgiving about living on a boat anyway? As of yet, I have not been able to answer this question; however, I have been trying to make my life at our house more like living on a boat – to incorporate routines of Finito.

To do so, I have put myself on a program  I call “The Boat of Life.” For instance, when I get up in the morning I act as I did as first mate.  I get a cup of coffee, and before I do anything else, “I walk around the boat – the house.” Slowly and thoughtfully, making sure not to fall, I check the lines and the fenders.”  I look for things: wood rot, needed repairs; also  I take note of the sky for hints of the day’s weather. I breathe in the air. I look for beauty.

Today my house’s boat of life loop revealed some wonderful things: flowers in bloom; a few butterflies; a pair of Carolina Wrens nervously constructing  a nest; bright orange mastic tree fruits;  light rain, mild temperatures, and a particularly high number of leafs hanging from branches to balance  spider webs. Serious wood rot too!

By the time I walk back inside the house, I am ready, not for the water, but for the boat of life. 🙂

Path the Boat of Life
Moon Flower
Rose
Dagger longwing on green shrimp plant
Mastic tree fruit
Picture plant

Again? America’s Great Loop!

Burgees 1 & 2 America’s Great Loop

Burgee: 1. a swallow-tailed flag used especially by ships for signals or identification. 2. the usually triangular identifying flag of a yacht club.

There are three Great Loop burgees awarded to Loopers by the American Great Loop Cruisers’ Association: White for the newbies, doing the Loop for the first time;  Gold for those who have completed the Great Loop; and Platinum for Loopers who have completed the Great Loop two or more times!

When Finito retired the white burgee, and Ed and I put the gold burgee on, Ed looked right at me. I knew what he was thinking…

Again?”

It’s tempting!

Gold burgee

Ed and I loved just about every minute of the Great Loop including a year and thousands of miles of difficult challenges.

The feeling after completion is hard to put into words. The journey was a like a reset button for everything that’s important, and a great way to get closer to one’s spouse. In fact, now that we have been home for a week, we find ourselves missing the closeness and simplicity of living on a boat.

I’ve been asked what my favorite part of the trip was. I can truly say all of it. Even when I thought Ed might throw me overboard or fire me as First Mate.

One of the very best experiences, came at the end when we crossed  the Gulf of Mexico/America. The winds had been high but they had settled so there was a short window to cross. I was nervous about traveling at night, so we journeyed with two other trawlers: Happy Giraffe and Satellite Office. We were a pack.

Ed captaining at night

The trip took 24 hours leaving from Port St. Joe and arriving in Tarpon Springs. We didn’t want to pull into Tarpon Springs until sunrise so we could see the many crab traps that could get tangled in the engines. Night fell and the hours droned on. The moon was to rise at 4 am. I brought Ed coffee and sat with our cat, Okee, as the waves rocked the craft.  I captained when Ed needed rest or a break. We ate little. Around 2am I left the pilot house and peeked outside. I could not see my hand in front of me. The air was cool, and the stars were everywhere. Not just up above, but thick from horizon to horizon. It was incredible. Never had I seen so many stars. I walked out into the darkness.

I thought about all of the experiences I’d had on the Loop, and everything  that Ed and I had shared and learned together.  I thought about our county and the history I had lived up close. I thought about all of the waters, lakes, and rivers.  I thought about Okee who had traveled almost 6000 miles, and about Luna, our beloved Belgium Shepard, who passed away on Finito when we were on Lake Michigan. I thought about what it might be like once Ed and I were home. I promised myself I would be more appreciative of all things and that  I would never forget this night under the Heavens,  and that I would remember that every night there are this many stars…

So now we are home, and in the evenings, I  keep looking at the sky with full knowledge of the beauty that exists, but that I just can’t see…

Unless, of course.

Again? 🙂

Sunrise as we approached Tarpon Springs
Okee was a real sport!
Finito at the Harborage upon returning to Stuart. “Crossing our wake!”‘ 3-7-25 Photo credit Darrell Brand.